What’s Mine is Yours

“What’s yours is mine, and what’s mine is mine.” My husband and I used to joke that this was the unspoken motto of our kids when they were little. Toddlers have no qualms about grabbing a toy, snack, or any random item of interest from other people or pets. It’s rare to see a child share her cherished possessions generously. 

It can be hard for all of us to share.  

Media bombards us with marketing campaigns that tell us we are the center of the universe. “You, you, you, you, you!””  

Time and time again we hear that this life is all about us. The more we have, the happier we’ll be. The bigger that bank account, the more blessed the life. I sincerely hope that none of us believe these lies. They’re dangerous deceptions. 

How does this mentality slip into our realities? Sometimes we don’t want to share our time or our space. Sometimes we don’t want to share our loved ones or our gifts. Sometimes we don’t want to share our resources. And sometimes we just want to be left to ourselves and don’t want to share anything! 

But God calls each of us to share. 

The early New Testament church shows us that generous living honors God and blesses others. In Acts 4:32-37, we see an amazing snapshot of generous giving in the early church. The believers were one in heart and mind. They were supernaturally unified to testify to the resurrection of the Lord Jesus, and there wasn’t a needy person among them. It wasn’t mandatory. It wasn’t done begrudgingly.  

“…they shared everything they had” (Acts 4:32).  

“The disciples, each according to his ability, decided to provide help for the brothers living in Judea. This they did, sending their gift to the elders by Barnabas and Saul” (Acts 11:29-30). 

“But just as you excel in everything – in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in your love for us – see that you also excel in this grace of giving… For if the willingness is there, the gift is acceptable according to what one has, not according to what he does not have”(I Corinthians 8:7,12).  

Everything that the believers owned belonged to God, and they knew it. They placed what they had before the leaders in selfless acts of worship … for the glory of God and the provision of others. This principle is important, but it’s also counter-cultural.  

True life, a blessed life, an abundant life, a purposed life, is, in fact, all about God and His glory. What we have, have given birth to, or hold onto is really not our own. All of our treasures are just on loan to us for a breath of a moment by our more-than-generous Creator. And each day brings new opportunities to be good stewards. Generous living reflects God’s gracious giving. When we share what we have, God is honored, and needs are met. 

I’m not suggesting a Robin Hood philosophy of “take from the rich and give to the poor.” And I don’t believe in the politics of communism or socialism. This principle of generous giving is Biblical. It’s an act of worship to God. It matters to God, and it should matter to us. 

Let’s reject the toddler mentality of “what’s mine is mine.” 

 God loves a cheerful giver. 

Join me today in telling God, “Lord, what’s mine is Yours.”  

Dear Lord, Thanks for this reminder from Your Word. You are lavish in love and have given me so much. All I have is Yours. Please help me to excel in the grace and worship of giving. Open my eyes to opportunities to bless others for Your glory.
In Jesus’ Name, Amen. 

~ Gwen Smith is an author, speaker, co-founder of Girlfriends in God and host of the Graceologie podcast.